A common trend in couples going through a heated Orange County child custody battle is one parent’s parental alienation of the child against the other parent. Parental alienation occurs when a child expresses unjustified hatred or unreasonably strong dislike of one parent, making access by the rejected parent difficult or impossible. The feelings of the child may be triggered by the other parent’s negative comments. For example, if one parent “bad-mouths” the other parent in the presence of the child, the child will likely be influenced by that parent’s negativity. This causes the child to dislike the parent being talked down upon.
Often times couples going through a divorce forget about the children involved and usually seek “revenge” against the other spouse without consideration for the welfare of the children involved. Obviously, such tactics are not in the best interest of the child. When going through an Orange County divorce proceedings, it is best to keep the children out of the situation and to keep the issues strictly between the divorcing couple.
For more information on parental alienation, contact an Orange County child custody attorney for more information.
Source: Parental Alienation